My Supports

Family
The support system I have within my family is what keeps me going each day! My mother lives with me because of her disability, but she is a big support to me emotionally and physically. She is always available to listen and give advice. She also helps with housework and watching my husband when I have responsibilties. My children also provide emotional support by listening and being very intuned to when I need a hug or just to be left alone for a little bit. My sisters and brother are a support because they are often available to give someone a ride when needed. This sounds like a small thing but whoever thinks that has not tried to be in two places at once. Take my word for it, it is impossible!
Before his downfall I would have said that my husband was my greatest support. He is a wonderful man who I could share anything with and he would not judge or try to change me. He was very good at letting me cry on his shoulder, literally. He also supported me by helping with my children. His relationship with them took the place of their father not being in the picture. This type of support is crucial to a single mother. I believe his illness has had an extreme affect on them because they miss the commraderie.
Friends
I have a wonderful group of friends that are very supportive! They have seen me through a divorce, a grandbaby too early, and a new marriage. They have been available to help physically and emotionally when I need them. I often hear people say that you can pick your friends, not your family. I believe I have the best of both worlds!

Imaginary Challenge
If I were to face a disability that would make me unable to do all the things that I do today I know that I would be able to count on my family and friends to help. Without them I don't know how my husband would be taken care of, my children would get where they need to go, my house would be kept up, or how we would support ourselves monetarily. I am very lucky to have such a big circle of support!